It is almost exactly 2 years now since we started trying. 2 years ago, I had an IUI just a few weeks prior to the conference my company puts on every May. I POAS in my hotel room, by myself, and got my BFP at that conference. And then I miscarried on Mother’s Day.
Here we are, 2 years later. It’s about a week and a half before the big conference my company puts on every year, and I had my IUI. I will POAS while I am away. Yet another hotel housekeeper who is going to find a pregnancy test lying on the sink. It must seem scandalous. Last time I was so excited I tested every day and I left my tests on the sink to come back and see throughout the day. 2 years later, my excitement has been tempered by a big, painful, dose of reality.
Today’s IUI was anything but uneventful. Dr. Z had mentioned that when we went in today to do the follicle reduction, they might be able to freeze the eggs they remove. And then later if we needed/wanted them, they would thaw them and try to fertilize them. I agreed that we would like to do that if it was possible, and he said they would not charge us because they do not typically freeze eggs, so they would view this as a chance to practice. From my perspective, if we get an embryo out of the deal, then great. If not, there’s nothing to lose. The other option was to just throw them away anyway.
So, when we got there today, they got me ready for anesthesia – a follicle reduction is the same as an egg retrieval, so anesthesia is necessary! Then the embryologist came in and explained that they were going to do the egg retrieval. They would then freeze them and about an hour later, thaw them. At that point they would ICSI them, using a bit of sperm from the vial that was thawed for our IUI today. And from there, it’s just like IVF, you wait for fertilization reports, embryo growth reports, etc. They would also leave several follicles intact in me, and do the IUI while I was under anesthesia.
So, because we allowed them to freeze the eggs, we basically got a free IVF cycle out of this. They retrieved 13 eggs, and left in 4 follicles for the IUI. I had 17 eggs on half the meds I was taking with IVF – and I have never had that many before. This was our last try to get a genetic sibling for our son because it’s the last vial of sperm from our donor, like anywhere. But because they decided to fertilize the eggs today, in conjunction with our IUI, if anything comes from it, we will have some additional chances.
I need to send them a card or something and thank them. Everyone was so incredibly nice today. Beyond nice. Nicer than nice. And they gave us this awesome opportunity to maybe get some frozen embryos to use in the future. So, now we get through the 2WW and see if anything comes from the frozen eggs.
So, it was an eventful day. I guess this cycle ended up being a combo IUI/IVF?